As you may or may not know, I give a lot of relationship advice. It’s just what I do, and I’ve gotten pretty good at it over the years.
But today I have a story to share…
About a man who I’ll call Larry. Not his real name of course, but I already feel bad enough for “Larry” so I won’t embarrass him by divulging his real name.
Pretty sure this dude has never been laid. I mean NEVER. I’m almost certain of it.
And to be honest, I’m not sure he ever will. His attitude STINKS. He definitely doesn’t have the mindset to get good with women. Not even close.
So anyway, Larry emailed me and wanted some advice on getting sexual with women. Cool. No problem. Sexual escalation is something a lot of men struggle with, but something video 5 of the Girlfriend Activation System can easily handle for any guy who wants to totally kill it with women.
After reading Larry’s “problem email”, I hit reply and sent him some advice. Some killer stuff. Stuff that has worked for me and a bunch of other guys time and time again.
Do you know what I told him? I told him about touching a woman with his eyes.
Sound weird? Fair enough. I’ll agree it’s a little “out there” when you hear it for the first time. But it’s definitely not weird once you know how it’s done. In fact, it’s gold!
Well, Larry must have thought it was weird too because he replied saying he thought I was full of it. That it would never work. That it was “too risky”.
At that point, Larry needed a slap…a bitch slap…but the computer blocked my hand, so I’ll save that for another day.
When you hand out gold nuggets and guys start telling you things are TOO RISKY, it becomes pretty obvious pretty quick why they aren’t with the girl of their dreams. Why they spend every night alone at home with their hand instead of draped all over a sexy goddess…or two.
If you’re not willing to overcome a little fear to go after a woman you really want, then you aren’t meant to be a badass. Dating is about risks. Life is about risks. If you’re not willing to face your fears and take a risk (even if that means failing) to go after something you REALLY want…like that total 10 sitting over there at the bar….then it’s better to stay home.
Larry still wants to be a safe little girl. He’s not ready to be a courageous and dangerous man. He’s not ready to be the absolute best, most badass version of himself.
And that’s ok. I hear reruns of Gilmore Girls are on tonight.
My advice to you. Don’t be Larry. Be a winner. A MAN! A BADASS! Take risks and achieve great things in life.
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